Political “Polarization” Was Never the ProblemDo we really need more “centrists” in a genocidal empire?Oct 239Oct 239
Girls Self-Diagnosing on TikTok Aren’t Why Ableism HappensA response to Freddie deBoer’s “Of Course People Make Up Disabilities”Oct 114Oct 114
The Trans & Autistic Guide to CruisingExploring desire in bars, backrooms, parks, saunas, on the apps, and beyond.Sep 165Sep 165
A sequel to Unmasking Autism is coming soon!Unmasking for Life: for when you’ve realized you’re neurodivergent, and now suddenly a whole bunch of shit in your life has got to change.Sep 119Sep 119
I’m bi, but I’ve only ever been with my partner. Should I cheat?A round-up of advice about monogamy, kink, and the difficult work of treading one’s own sexual path.Aug 232Aug 232
There is no safe sex. There is no safe life.Fucking, transitioning, and resisting the state all require admitting risk into your life.Aug 155Aug 155