What I’m noticing four months after stopping testosterone.What to expect when you stop expecting yourself to be a man.21h agoA response icon321h agoA response icon3
The Ethics (& Tactics) of Telling Someone You Think They’re Autistic(Also relevant if you want to successfully crack a closeted trans person’s egg).Nov 3A response icon7Nov 3A response icon7
Spotify asked me to partner with them for the 2025 Wrapped. Here’s why I won’t be participating.No art for genocide and ICE recruitment.Oct 30A response icon7Oct 30A response icon7
A Typology of Insecurities in Non-monogamy:Because “jealousy” and “envy” aren’t all there is.Oct 15A response icon6Oct 15A response icon6
How (Some) Autistics Get by Without EmpathyFeeling “evil” isn’t easy.Oct 1A response icon16Oct 1A response icon16
One does not simply “find a Dom.”Kink isn’t about getting a partner, it’s about growing in community with your fellow freaks.Sep 15A response icon2Sep 15A response icon2
Some effects of testosterone give me dysphoria. That doesn’t mean I regret it.I had to go there to get here.Sep 1A response icon25Sep 1A response icon25
How to cancel someone online.How the internet functions — and sometimes fails — as a tool of public accountability.Aug 11A response icon17Aug 11A response icon17
What to do if you get cancelled online.Keep your cool, minimize the damage, and only make amends to those you really owe it to.Aug 4A response icon20Aug 4A response icon20
How to Survive a Queer Kink LibricideAs Steam and Itch.io join in the mass purge of LGBTQ content, we must document our past and ensure a shared future.Jul 25A response icon2Jul 25A response icon2