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My nephew is skeeved out by my kinky life.Setting boundaries without shame.Jun 16A response icon1Jun 16A response icon1
Maybe You’ll Never be Happy. But You Can Be Interested.Finding meaning in an ordinarily unhappy life.Jun 9A response icon20Jun 9A response icon20
How Commercialization and Assimilation Shook the Queer CommunityA retrospective on Daniel Harris’ The Rise and Fall of Gay CultureJun 2A response icon5Jun 2A response icon5
Wait a second, is shame just a lack of power?When you recognize that you don’t have status or influence, it affects your self-concept — and your social behavior.May 28A response icon18May 28A response icon18
Be jealous. Make demands. Want more.Here’s to a passionate, fully human nonmonogamy where things aren’t always fair and people are needy.May 19A response icon4May 19A response icon4
I just came out as trans. Why am I suddenly so angry?Imagining a better life can make you hyper-aware of all that you’re missing.May 12A response icon10May 12A response icon10
Honest Communication Kills Weaponized IncompetenceIt’s only human to need help — but you have to be honest about it.May 1A response icon17May 1A response icon17
“Diagnosis is a Privilege”In the wake of RFK Jr’s Autism registry, is it really?Apr 24A response icon14Apr 24A response icon14
Why I used to “hate” kids.And what those feelings actually meant.Apr 21A response icon39Apr 21A response icon39