And that is precisely why he’s a rapey piece of shit. If someone is uncomfortable, THAT. IS. A. FUCKING. NO.
I’m sorry you have been through violating experiences. You do not get to define how someone else ought to feel or behave because of what you went through. You weren’t in her fucking shoes. Your comments invalidate her and people like her who are standing up to abuse. I’m not sure why you would put energy into trying to discredit someone who has also suffered. I hope you will rethink your position.