Thank you so much for this Jas. Always great to hear from a person who has lived a childfree life past the age where most people typically have kids, and is happy with their discussion. And even more beneficial to hear from fellow trans people who are childfree, though I know the dynamic and relationship to the idea of having kids is very different for trans women than trans masc people a lot of the time. You’re so right about how corrosive and needless carrying the guilt of other people is. I wish I knew better how to let go of it.