That just means you were disenfranchised, not that you are not real. I didn’t know about a lot of trans issues until a few years ago, thanks to meeting trans people online. Most people do not possess the superhuman self-knowledge and confidence to know and state outright that they are trans without having some knowledge of the topic beforehand.

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