These are the kinds of comments that I just love to receive! Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. I think it makes sense that you have come to be a bit eyeroll-y about biphobia as a topic, because you've seen it be framed in a way that's homophobic and oblivious to the fact that horizontal harm goes both ways. I see a version of this same dynamic between nonbinary and binary trans people as well! And I have also seen trans people of all stripes engage in some of the same kinds of homophobia discussed here... it's hard work but we all have a ways to go in respecting one another's unique experiences of oppression as well as the fact we're all in the same boat.