You know, I’ve been in trans circles for years now, and I have never, ever heard a trans woman say this. Every trans woman that I’ve heard talk about sexual preferences is incredibly gentle and forgiving about the fact that there are women who don’t want to date them. At most, they’ll say that people ought to interrogate and contemplate why their preferences are what they are, as should anyone with a preference that aligns with the prevailing power structures. The only people who I’ve heard spout this rhetoric are Gender Critical/TERF women, who are creating a straw-woman of trans femme people by claiming that any of them believe it.

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