You’re missing the point. This actually has nothing to do with how much sex a gay man (or gay men in general) are having, but the lens through which people view them. Even if a dude is having sex with multiple people every single night, he doesn’t deserve to be seen in a hypersexualized light when he’s just going about his business in public. His mundane life and his body is not inherently more sexual than anyone else’s, and it’s not inappropriate or perverse for him to be in public with a partner.

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